How to Talk to Teens About Generosity

Why small conversations now can shape big impact later.

Raising generous teens starts with conversations—not lectures. The teenage years are when values are tested, identity is forming, and independence is growing. It’s the perfect time to plant seeds of generosity that can take root for life.

Here are three ways to make generosity real, relevant, and relational for the next generation:

1. Make it About Their Story—Not Just Someone Else's Need

Teens want to know they matter. Instead of starting with stats about global issues, ask:

“What do you care about?” or “What would you change if you could?”

You might be surprised by what surfaces—climate action, youth mental health, clean water, or local homelessness.

Once you know what sparks their interest, help them act on it. Even a small amount—$10 or $20—can be meaningful when they choose where it goes. With Share Funds from GiveWise, you can send a charitable e-transfer directly into their Giving Fund — giving them the freedom to support causes they care about and experience the joy of giving firsthand.

2. Lead by Example—Then Let Them Lead

You don’t need to be an expert. Just be honest and open. Talk about how you choose where to give, what causes move you, and what you’ve learned along the way.

Invite your teen into the process:

Let them help research a charity before your next donation

Ask for their input on year-end giving decisions

Set up a family Giving Fund where everyone, including teens, can recommend where a portion goes

When teens feel included, they begin to see generosity as part of who they are—not just something their parents do.

3. Use Milestones to Talk About Meaning

Graduation. A first job. A milestone birthday. These are ideal times to introduce generosity as part of a life rhythm.

Instead of giving just money or stuff, consider sending a Share Funds gift or opening a Giving Fund in their name. It’s a hands-on way to show that generosity isn’t just for adults — it’s part of growing up with purpose.

You can sign up for a Giving Fund here and start involving your family in giving right away.

Final Thoughts

Teens don’t need perfection—they need conversation.